the should i’s and should i not’s
u know a person is mature when they make a conscious decision to make a choice.
and of course, better still if they are able to make a decision and stick to it and bear responsibility for their actions.
i find it really odd these days that a lot of people, at whatever age, do not want to or do not know how to stop, think then act.
and of course, i’m not the most mature person alive.. neither am i suggesting that i am or will ever be..
but sometimes u just feel like wringing their necks and slapping them into reality.
funnier still is that these people can turn back and call others childish when they themselves are living proof of the things that they just claimed another to be!
to make a choice and be responsible for your actions is to first be patient, and then reasonable.
is it that hard to take a few seconds or minutes to think about what u are about to do or say next?
things that are said or done in the heat of the moment, whether it is regretted later on or not, cannot be taken back.
words cannot be taken back.
worse is if u dont even realise that the things u just said are hurtful..
things that are said will follow and haunt u for the rest of your life whether u want it to or not.
granted that i sometimes am very very tempted to say things just because i feel like it.
but then i stop myself because i dont think that it is beneficiary to anyone.
and on occasions, i do say things i regret later on but i take full responsibility for it.
every thing in life is based on a choice.
every choice in life is a step u take towards being a better u.
so why make the choice to not make a choice?
ignorance is not bliss in this case.
the more u ignore choice making, the more u hurt the people who care for u.
like it or not, making a responsible choice is a part of life
and i know that to do the right thing is a million times harder than giving in to evil lil’ ignorance.
kick it, ignore it, abuse it all u want..
its not going to change the fact that u’ll have to face reality and yourself to make a choice however hard it may be.
























