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i've never pretended in front of you.
but
because i am myself,
i become the person you do not want.

i know.
i cannot pretend to like the things you like.
i know.
i cannot pretend to admire you for the things you're proud of.
i know.
i cannot pretend to be the things i know i cannot be.

but because i want you to like me.
maybe.
just maybe.
i'm contemplating to make me everything you wish me to be.

Everything may scream "we're meant to be"
but I'm waiting for some wave of rationality
to wash over me.
because i DO NOT want to lie
to YOU and to ME
just to be that person you want me to be.

As mentioned in the title above,
this post is regarding a new seat belt law.

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This becomes effective December 1st, 2009 in all EU countries.

The EU Highway Safety Council has done extensive testing on this newly designed seat belt.

Results show that accidents can be reduced by as much as 95% when this belt is properly worn.

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Correct installation is illustrated below.

Please share this with family and friends.

THIS MAY HELP SAVE A LIFE!

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This can really save lives and lower blood pressure by 40%.

I KNOW… YOU SMILED.

image source: paisdelocos.com

First working experience in glasgow, i would say it was great!! It's the very first pounds i earned since i came to UK and i'm very proud of myself!lol...except that i really did feel like a maid, serving people, doing the heavy cutleries and plate liftings and all.

It was a christmas party (a company's i assume), and everyone was dressed up so nicely!

The upsides were that i worked with a really good waitress which did most of the heavy lifting..=P And that the table i served had some very nice people who volunteered to pass the soups and so i didn't have to walk as much. Cuz the grand ballroom i worked in consists of rectangle instead of the standard round table. Each table had 40 seatings.

The downside was that there were some weird people who kept asking for food although they've already been served, many rather 'BIG' people who impeded my walking, and the fact that they really waste food. The main dish was turkey, and some of the people just chewed a bit and stopped eating. While for the dessert, a lot just ate less than 5% and left it there. I threw away soooooooo much of food, so much so that i feel so bad!!

Anyway i secretly took some photos of the ballroom..hehe..so here they are..=)






These are mint choc i 'took'. It was part of the dessert and many people didn't take them. We took it back into the kitchen and was told to throw them all away!! HEY it's such a SIN to throw food away! And these are wrapped in foil plus they're CHOCOLATES!! So i mati-mati also took them although i didn't have pocket. (I hid them all underneath my shirt cuz i tucked my shirt in)

And on our way back via train, we saw this on the seats..hehe so i decided to take a photo of it. Mind you, it's USED!lol


Kaai yirng's one??=P She seems happy!!@.@

guess what? nevermind, the title says it all

basically, josey’s mum’s cousin came to kl with a couple of his friends, and because she has a pretty bad sense of direction, i was “dragged” along to “tour” them. luckily, he has a relative living in kl, and therefore my “sole purpose” on that day was just to drive the other car and not guide.

when we arrived there, it was already 2pm thanks to the crazy traffic into malacca town. finding a parking that day was like searching for a needle in a haystack. after finding a parking lot in dataran pahlawan melaka megamall, we had mcd for lunch before walking around.

first stop was, of course, the ruins of fort a famosa. dear readers, now that i’m feeling lazy to elaborate any further, let’s have the pictures do the talking.